Please don't be discouraged. Restraining orders work.

Today was another sad day here in Western Washington, with news of yet another domestic violence murder-suicide. See the Columbian.

Coincidentally, this week, I listened to the Dixie Chicks singing "Goodbye Earl," in which Earl "walks right through that restraining order and put her in intensive care." I like the music, but I don't like the message.

Because, for most people, restraining orders work.

I'm not citing any authority here except myself. I prosecuted domestic violence crimes for years, and I have heard it all. And yes, there are people who don't find peace in a court order. But believe me, believe me, it DOES make a difference to tell an offender, you are going to JAIL if you make contact. It does. Really, it does.

If you are a domestic violence victim or you love someone who is, please encourage them to seek protection.